There is a common misconception that one’s value is based on one’s financial status. That is to say, to increase one’s personal value, he must pursue a life of accumulating material wealth. In reality, this is far from the truth. Material possessions may seem important in the moment, but there is nothing more fleeting.
Does the fancy car you owned when you were twenty-five matter when you’re on your deathbed at eighty? Will anyone remember that your house was slightly larger than your next-door-neighbors? No. No one will care, and no one will even remember.
One’s true lasting value is really one’s reputation. While material items come and go, a reputation (good or bad) can last forever.
Fortunately, each of us controls our own reputation. Whether or not you’re born a smart student or a strong athlete, you can show integrity and perseverance in everything that you do, forging a lasting reputation. In that sense, everyone is created equal, and we each have within us the ability to shape our own “value.” Will you be known for your loyalty? Hard work? Kindness? Honesty? Sense of humor? Failed Ponzi scheme? (Mr. Ponzi’s reputation is immortal)
So, the only real question is: what will you be known for? It’s up to you.